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We Should Hang Out Sometime


Summary:
The author hasn't had a girlfriend through his mid-twenties, but he has talked to a lot of girls.  He goes back and asks them what went wrong.

Review:
This book leaves me feeling hollow and sad.  ...because below:

Spoilers: He often goes back to talk to the girl to find out what went wrong, but then gets too insecure to ask "what happened?"  He assumes they don't / didn't like him so he doesn't even take the shot or make the ask.  He still has self-esteem / confidence problems.

He is often too little too late.

My takeaway from this book is ASK!!!! Ask for what you want or you will be full of regret with your d*ck in your hand.

This book is a page turner and easy read.  I heard about it on NPR and it's listed in the teen / young adult section at bookstores.
5 out of 5

Love (Netflix 2016-2017)



Love (the Netflix tv show)


Specifically, Season 2 Episode 3 and the first part of next episode 4

What happened?
Love is a show about people in their early 30’s in LA.  The two main characters have various personality traits that cause problems.  They meet and the show has a ‘will they, won’t they’ become a couple and be happy together.

Spoilers now:
At the end of season 1, they have just kissed and it’s a cliff hanger of “will they get back together?”  In S02 E02, they hang a bunch and end the episode with them having sex.  In the following episode, S02 E03, my question was, “will Gus text Mikey?” Backstory, in Season 1, Gus and Mikey have sex, then he doesn’t text her, she feels hurt, she brings it up, he says he left that morning with a goodbye and that was his ‘daily contact.’  Mikey isn't thrilled with that answer. From that point on, their relationship starts crumbling.

So, in S02 E03, Mikey checks her phone throughout the day and Gus never texts.  She drafts but doesn’t send a text saying the sex was a mistake.  She goes to bed seeming content.  My expectation was some type of communication follow up with her and Gus taking place the next episode.  This show is very much sequential with many episodes picking up directly where the last one left off.  The past previous episode transitions did that.

But, in S02 E04, it skips a day or more?! We have no idea.  It picks up like nothing is wrong.  No scheduling drama.  Gus just comes over during some following evening.  

I felt annoyed and a little insulted / disrespected.  I expected some drama about Gus not texting after sex or some drama about ‘will they won’t they?’ with scheduling their next date / hangout.

Here’s the why for my rating and my guess as to why this show got canceled:

Why was the transition so bad?  Why was it not consistent with past episodes?  Why do the characters change how they act in the exact same situations?

This show, as many good TV shows, live and thrive off the transitions between episodes.  Like in Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones, or The Office, something happens at the end of one episode and you want to know what will happen next.  It’s called a cliff hanger. So you watch the next episode and they answer what happens next. 

Love generally does that: an episode has a cliff hanger, the next episode picks up where it left off.  Why, in this big set up and tension from Mikey checking her phone throughout the day and maybe texting Gus to end things… did nothing happen without the next episode? The show just ignores all of the previous episodes as soon as Gus comes to the door like nothing happened and it wasn’t a big deal.

Is the show entertaining? Yes.  Do I laugh? Occasionally, it’s kind of a drama.  Is there a bunch of dumb shit? Yea

Stars: 
3 out of 5.

P.S: In S02 E03, Truman (played by Bobby Lee) initially said he was in an abusive relationship.  Mikey went to help him out by recovering stuff from Lee’s girlfriend’s apartment while she was away.  They get caught by the girlfriend.  The GF contradicts Lee’s story.

What was up with Bobby Lee’s character?  When was he lying or telling the truth?  Why did they write it like that?  What did that add to the show?
Just some unnecessary dumb shit.  Get show your show together.


Glass Castle by Jeannette Walls

Summary 

The Glass Castle is a 2005 memoir by Jeannette Walls. This book is a growing up tale. It takes pace in the United States (California, New Mexico, West Virginia, and New York city.) The story is told in first person view by strong female character. It goes over growing up poor, with an loving, fun, dysfunctional, and warm parents in the desert, rural coal country, and arriving in New York City. She does a lot and the book moves fast.

Recommendation

This book is awesome! It is heartfelt and a quick read. I really enjoyed the strong female lead, her insights, and [spoiler] overcoming adversity. It cover the emotional gamut: love, shame, fear, triumph. 

The only negative is there isn't more of the book. I would have easily spent another fews gobbling up more of her / their story. I am happy that I read this book! I am not a fast reader and I read this in 2 or 3 days? It goes really fast. 

For cautious readers There is some sexual assault, bad words native to USA, mental illness, and alcoholism.

Stars:
5 out of 5 stars!